First Handjob

Never really thinking about until just this moment I realized my own first sexual completions happened quite out of order. I would assume most people reach an orgasm through manual or oral stimulation before they lose their virginity, though that was certainly not the case for me.

As you may recall, I lost my virginity in my freshman year and while there was a lot of mutual groping, it never actually resulted in an orgasm for me. It was not until two years later, in a short relationship did I receive my first handjob. I met her in the lunch room, and as a joke I was asked “Hey, what’s your sign”, and I, in my normal smooth manner, replied, “Whatever you want it to be.” Ugh so lame. But, whatever, it worked.

Well, we dated for a short time, and the time we spent together was filled with lots of passionate kissing and some light touching, but nothing too hot and heavy. That all changed one day she was over the house and we were in the basement playing ping pong. I forget what caused me to go over to her side of the table, but next thing I knew, we were making out again. We slowly made our way to the floor and before I knew it, she was unbuttoning my pants and pulling my cock out.

As we continued to kiss, facing each other, she had an upside down, backwards grip on around my penis (thumb at the base, palm on the “top”). The makeout session continued for a bit and she continued to stroke my cock with a semi-tight grip, I could feel an orgasm coming. Not knowing proper etiquette then, I simply kept kissing her as I came with no warning. The funny thing was that she kept jerking me off even after I finished and I had to tell her, “Umm, that’s it”. I later found out that this was her first time giving a hand job as well, so it does explain not knowing when a man was finished.

Hand jobs still remain one of my favorite sexual because for me there is a closeness between the giver and the recipient, typically with lots of kissing. It is also pretty neat that each hand job tends to be different depending on the givers mood, energy level and position. Though, I will say that over the years, my first hand job was the only one ever given with that specific backwards upside down grip, and that is why it stands out in my head, I think.